communicate

Hello, my lovely readers. I am writing after a long time. Thanks for your patience. It is New Year 2020. New Year is a time for new resolutions, new goals, new dreams and a lot more. My journey to a new life started in August 2019. Past years were tough for me. I overcame many challenges and setbacks but I never gave up on myself and my dreams. It is better to be late than never. When I wanted to say “Good-Bye” to life my God said “Hello” to me. He is the one who changed my total being, my soul and transformed me into a person I am today.

Hello my lovely readers, How are you? On the occasion of Navaratri 2019, I dedicate this article of mine to the soulmate connection which has been downloaded from the heavens here on this earth by the divine for me and he is the one who has been given the task to make these two people one.

I have already discussed in my previous articles that the universe communicates with you in various ways by means of signs, sounds, numbers or just people and things around you. When the universe or I would say God wants to pass on the message it will find out mysterious ways of communicating with you and when you fail to pay any attention it will just come in the forefront and not allow you to do anything unless you decode the message which the universe wants to send to you.

I conducted training program at JCI Bhivapur on 9th September 2012 on 1st day of Jaycee Week. The program was for Jaycerette wing and my audience comprised of both married and unmarried ladies. I received a warm welcome from Jaycerette Chairperson.

I got an opportunity to conduct training program on Women Empowerment for ladies of JCI Umred coal Power. My audience comprised of housewives. Some of them were in the age group of 30 – 40 and rest were above 50 years. After the inaugural session they were giving me a blank look and were wondering what I will be training them about. I knew it would be a tough job to motivate them and communicate my thoughts to them but i took the challenge and started the training.

I conducted training program at Gurunanak School, Nagpur on 18th July 2012 for 9th standard students on Leadership. I entered the hall and there was pin drop silence. Mahek, President JCI Women's World introduced me to the students. After a formal introduction i started up with the training. The students were very eager to know as to what i will teach them on leadership. I asked them to assess themselves and do self analysis and then choose a future path of their career. Leadership is a journey, not an end or a destination. A leader works hard and carves a path for others to follow.

Every time i see my child i ask myself the same question, Have i given enough time to my child ? In the fast moving scenario, with growing responsibilities and so much work load we find it difficult to share quality time with our child. There is a difference between staying together in the same house with kids for 8 – 10 hours and spending quality time with them. I can be at home doing office work or just watching television. That is not quality time, quality time is just being with the child and concentrating on him/her. Playing, spending time together or watching movies.

Parents are role models to children. Parents play a major role in the upbringing of a child. The responsibility as a parent towards their children is a greater responsibility as one wrong doing can change the perception of the child towards the parent. It is easy to become a parent but sometimes it gets difficult to play the role. Parents nurture their children from the day they are born till they are grown enough to lead their own lives. Parents act as a guardian, friend, philosopher and guide to their children. Parents are whole world to their children.

We communicate non - verbally by means of gestures, postures, eye contact, facial expressions, body movements and our dressing. For example If i have to attend a marriage reception, i will be dressed with full make up and heavy jewellery and my outfit matches the occasion and conveys the same to the audience. I cannot attend a formal meeting with my client or go to office with heavy makeup as it will not match the occasion.

I never realized the impact of training till i enrolled for one and it changed my thought process and my life. I did not realized the power of positive words and its impact until i was struck by one. Soft skills training plays a vital role in a persons life but yes we have to realize that we need it and be a change we want to see. Hard skills will help us rise but we cannot enter and occupy the hearts of people until and unless we know how to communicate, what to communicate and when to communicate. Managers can do a great job if they know how to bring all people together and delegate work.