Successful

The blame game is a common problem in today’s world when the other person blames you for their problems and grief. It is easy to point the finger on someone else that so and so person is responsible for my problem while the reason for your success or failure could just be you yourself. How can someone else make you a failure or success if you are determined to move ahead in life. When you want to advance in life you will make a proper plan and work accordingly, you will check if others are working properly and if you find some loopholes you can communicate and fix them.

You must have heard many people coming to you and saying that you are capable of doing much more than you think you can. You sometimes undermine your own self and your potential to do something. You have this potential in you which others can see but you are not aware of it. While others believe that you can do it, you still don’t have faith in your own capabilities until one fine day when you have no other option just to do it because you face a do or die situation.

Hang on and Don’t quit because the best is yet to come. There are various life circumstances when quitting seems easier than holding on because holding on seems difficult and tiring. I would say don’t quit because that is the time things will turn in your favor. A lot of people keep trying and when they are just nearing success they just quit because they cannot persevere anymore and just think that they have reached the dead end and now they cannot move any further.

A Habit is something which we do every day and get used to doing the same thing the same way. Habits can be both good and bad and it is you who decides in which category you want to place everything you are used to doing. Habits are not formed in a day, it takes months to develop a habit. And it takes months to break a bad habit or a habit which you want to change. There are few traits which are common in highly successful people and if you have to be one among them you have to develop some of those habits too.

Looking back in my past days i discover how much time i utilized and how much time i wasted doing useless things which were never important but i did them just to impress people and show people how different i was, how intelligent i was. It is only later in life that i realized if i am great or intelligent i don’t need to prove anyone nor do i need approval of anyone to tell me who i am.
I realized i could have been successful much before but the delay was just due to my own attitude and personal belief.

The very idea of writing this article came to my mind when i was reading how to become a self published author. I checked websites like lulu.com, smashwords.com, scribd.com and Pothi.com. There are thousands and lacks of authors who have written books. You get confused as to which one to buy. You make a choice by either checking the reviews or number of books sold. Think of some one who is first time author or who wrote something for the first time, then who is going to buy his book. That is when marketing comes in to play.

Self analysis is analyzing what is best within us. What we can do best ? Our intrinsic qualities. It is discovering our own personal self and emotions. It is analyzing our values and what is important to us. Getting closer to our inner mind and soul.

Self analysis helps in knowing about our strengths, weaknesses, goals, aspirations, abilities, values and interest.

Parents are role models to children. Parents play a major role in the upbringing of a child. The responsibility as a parent towards their children is a greater responsibility as one wrong doing can change the perception of the child towards the parent. It is easy to become a parent but sometimes it gets difficult to play the role. Parents nurture their children from the day they are born till they are grown enough to lead their own lives. Parents act as a guardian, friend, philosopher and guide to their children. Parents are whole world to their children.

A book is a place to discover ocean full of knowledge. It carries information from all over the world. A book lover never gets bored from reading it and his craving increase with the finish of one book to start with the other. There are few tips and tricks for reading a book. First time readers will find difficulty in concentrating but with the passage of time reading will be fun. There is no hard and fast rule for completing a book in 15 days or one month. Read when you feel like reading. This will enhance your knowledge and increase your power of concentration.

Writing down goals are very important because written goals programs our subconscious mind. Thus we do not miss our targets and achieve our goals faster. Writing down our goals helps us in doing proper planning so that we can go through it again and again and live in it.