attitude

Attitude is the thinking with which we live. The way we perceive life and live it is our attitude. We have heard of optimistic and pessimistic people. Optimist's are those who carry a positive attitude towards life while the pessimists carry a negative attitude. There are people whose attitude remains negative no matter what happens to them while there are people whose positive attitude changes to negative and again comes back to equilibrium when a problem passes over.

Looking back in my past days i discover how much time i utilized and how much time i wasted doing useless things which were never important but i did them just to impress people and show people how different i was, how intelligent i was. It is only later in life that i realized if i am great or intelligent i don’t need to prove anyone nor do i need approval of anyone to tell me who i am.
I realized i could have been successful much before but the delay was just due to my own attitude and personal belief.

Everyone wants to get a good employment be it a fresher or an experienced person. The process starts from applying for a vacancy to appearing for an interview. The process of interviews starts with several aptitude test then group discussion and final interview. Final interview checks the overall personality of a candidate, his knowledge, attitude and other things which are not mentioned in his resume. The work of HR manager starts from sorting resume to recruiting the best candidate and the manager takes every step to hire the right person.

I got an opportunity to conduct training program for Right Value Institute of Nursing located at Trimurti Nagar on 13th September 2011. The program was organized by Jc Vidhi Jha, President JCI Nagpur Pride and Jc Amol Barde. It was the first time i was conducting program for students related to medical profession. I combined Communication Skills, Motivation, Goal Setting and Ethics and designed a program to suit their needs. My audience comprised of lady participants. Half were newly enrolled and rest were old students wearing uniform.

From my childhood days i used to think only the intelligent person can earn money and be successful in life. If i don't study well i will not get a good job and will be struck by failures. I need to go and work abroad to earn money and prove myself to be successful or at least visit overseas very often to show off. These were my childhood thinking's but when i grew up i found things to be quite different. The world which i imagined and the actual existing one were quite different. Why they were different ?

I asked God to change my life. He replied i cannot. I asked him why ? He told me that i had all the powers and needed no help. “ I had all the powers of changing my own self “ sounded very strange, but yes i felt great that i had all the powers which i needed to change my own self, my work life and my family. The problem with most of us is that we are so used to complaining that we do not concentrate on the solutions but cry just about our problem. Look in to the mirror, what you saw. Its your own image , your own shadow.

What is Goal Setting ? Why is it important to have goals in life ? Is it really necessary to have goals in life ? What will happen if i live a life without goals ? These are few questions which needs to be assessed and answered by every individual. Its the power of our dreams that takes us ahead or pulls us back. Goals are very important in life. Until we set a destination for ourselves how will we traverse the path and reach our destiny. With a specific goal we plan a specific path and try to conquer all odds of reaching that goal and persevere till the goal is achieved.

We are very happy when we receive a call letter from the company where we posted our resume. We receive date and timings for interview.
There are few things which should be kept in mind so that an interview goes successful and we get the job -

1)Find out each and every detail of the company where you have applied for interview. You will be asked questions about the company. Interviewers are impressed when you let them know the details.

2)Know your subject well. You will be asked practical as well as theoretical questions.

In today's fast moving scenario when there is negativity all around you its always better to fasten your seat belts and be prepared with all positive energy to face challenges in life. Now things have changed remarkably. Negative thoughts, negative views & negative people . There are many people who are trying to pull you down . You have to survive and reach your goal. Things will change only when you will want them to change. You have to start from yourself first then only you can change the society and their thinking at large.