failures

I am sure many of you would have come across this proverb “Something which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”. You get strong after a failed marriage, a failed long term relationship, an unsuccessful career or failure in sports. I would say failure doesn’t kill you but makes you stronger. If you would not have failed in your life you would not have been stronger nor you would have grown as a person. When you fail at something again and again or even once you realize your mistakes and you become smart enough not to repeat them again.

Writing down goals are very important because written goals programs our subconscious mind. Thus we do not miss our targets and achieve our goals faster. Writing down our goals helps us in doing proper planning so that we can go through it again and again and live in it.

Goals occupy an important aspect in our life. The thing which needs to be kept in mind while setting goals is when dreaming, dream big. Big and higher goals can be achieved by coming out of our comfort zone. Comfort zone is a zone which we have fixed for ourselves, we feel very relaxed and tension free in this zone as there are no day to day challenges. But when we aim big we have to move out of our comfort zone. we cannot reach great heights by staying in our comfort zone. Moving out of the zone is not easy.

We all dream of a life without failures and only success. But do we get that ? Is only success important and failures should be removed from dictionary ? Its very easy to fail than to succeed. We get “ F” on 6th position in the Alphabet series and “S” comes in 20th position. It means after failing one has to really work very hard to get success, travel the path difference of 12 alphabetical letters and get success. Then only we can enjoy the fruit of success.

Getting a promotion and not happy about it ? Facing sleepless nights ? Remaining restless ? You are probably facing promotion anxiety. Everyone works hard for good performance and to get promotion. There are few whose works gets recognized and their dream comes true. They are happy about it but after sometime feels out of place. They get demoralized and their performance deteriorates. This happens with almost every person leaving a few. There is nothing to worry. We have to take few measures so that we move out of that anxiety and not live in it.