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My own experience with life is both sweet and sour but then there are people in my life who have made my life worth living. They are my friends and family members who occupy a big part of my life. I know how tough life can get at times when you thought that your life is settled and everything falls apart. You are still wondering what is happening and your world has crashed in front of your own eyes and you simply do not know what to do. That is the toughest situation to face in life when your previous husband declares the end of the relationship without giving you the reason.

I would like to write about my relationship with you people today. You all are my lovely readers for all my articles. I would like to tell you that I value you all a lot, I value your opinions and feedbacks. I try to make changes when you all demand so and I try to make adjustments for you people. In writing down my thoughts and stories I make you all a part of my world so that you all get inspired and learn to do more. I want you all to be successful in your career, love life and married life.

In a fast-paced world where everyone is busy with their own lives and have very less time left for other people, it is very easy to misunderstand someone rather than understand him. It takes time to understand the other person while it is easy to judge the other person in no time. Life is a rat race where people are running after one thing or the other so when it comes to understanding the other person, no one has time for that. People come to conclusions, make a judgment and hence ruin their best relationship which was about to grow in the long term.

All of us have one or more secrets hidden in our heart, sometimes during the course of living if you find someone trustworthy of owning your secret you disclose it to him or else the secret remains hidden in your heart for a lifetime. When I talk about a secret, it is a very mysterious word and all kinds of stuff pop out in head as to what is the secret the other person is holding in his heart. You even try to get sneaky at times just to find out the unknown by listening to the person when he is talking to the other person by means of a parallel landline connection.

God is the supreme power who has the capacity to create miracles, turn your life around and amaze you with the unexpected. He is a powerful being but you cannot buy his grace, you have to be eligible to get his grace by doing the right things and walking on the right path. When you follow a righteous path you will see that your life will simplify for you and things won’t seem that complicated. The biggest problem of today’s generation is that they are drifting away from the roots and are finding their happiness in materialistic things which are temporary.

Every person has a past whether it is good or bad and I would say each one of you owns it. When you look back at the events, situations or people from the past, the sweet and sour memories will either bring a smile on your face or wet your eyes in tears. Not every memory you own is worth remembering, some memories sound good when forgotten. You don’t want to hold on to the memories which makes you relive your past hurts and freshens your wounds which are healed and have left scars behind them only to remind you that it is there for a reason.

All of us are destined to be here on this earth to walk on a journey which was always meant for us. The only question which I want to ask you is are you the same person today when you compare yourself to your own existence 5 to 10 years ago. I would say “No”, you are a different person today then you were yesterday. Your life’s experiences, your journey, your success, your failures, the people in your life and your daily struggles have molded you into a new person.

I hope all of you will agree with me that when you have empty space then only you can try filling it. You can never fill something which is preoccupied from before so when you delete unnecessary stuff from your life you create room for good things to enter your life. You have got old furniture which you want to replace with a new one. You are thinking first let me sell the old one and then I can buy the new one.

When you choose to be happy rather than being unhappy you have made a conscious decision from your heart. You decide to be happy about everything in life no matter whatever the circumstances. It is the choices that you make in your lifetime which decides the course of your life. When you choose the right things for yourself you already have made a conscious decision to be happy with your life. You cannot control what happens to you but yes you can control how you react to it and how boldly you accept the challenges that life throws at you.

In Today’s world when everything around us is getting sophisticated and artificial, why do we complicate life further? There is nothing which is wrong in sophistication but the power games which people play just to show off how big they are and how small others are, then it wrong. I would say the more simple things get, it gets easy to use them. You love your old phone which you bought just 1 year ago and now something new is in the market, though you do not need this new phone with new features you go ahead and spend a big chunk of money to own this phone so that you feel trendy.