I know this topic itself sounds crazy and you people must be thinking about what I am going to write. Just chill today I am penning down my own experiences and things which I have seen so read on to find more what I have to write about today’s topic. Well, you will see that whenever you overanalyze a problem it never really solves it but gets more problematic or it never needed the attention which you gave and sorted out on its own without your interference.
All of you know that we have the option to refresh a page when it does not load correctly or hangs midway. We immediately refresh the page so that we can view the desired page so is life there are times when you will have to press the refresh button of life so that you can start again because when you are stuck you have the only option to move ahead because you cannot go and mend the past so it is better to accept the present and move on with life.
There are various people in our life whom we meet for the first time and after that, we never meet again and in those moments they leave a long lasting impression on us. Our life is a sum total of feelings and experiences. You feel for someone in a good or bad way and you experience moments which either brings a smile on your face or saddens you. What you do with the best moment which comes in your life is absolutely your choice, you can either make it the best moment of your life or let your problems steal your joy.
We all know that this universe is vast and has no end but are you all aware that there is a big universe which exists inside us. It is not easy to get access to the inner universe until and unless you learn how to control your mind and reach a state where you are in full control of your own self. People who have harnessed their inner world are genius in their field because they have developed good intelligence, have a strong sixth sense, are intuitive and happy. The outer world which you see with your naked eyes is an extension of your inner world.
This very idea of second marriage would always strike my mind as to why someone really decides to go ahead with a second option or second marriage. Why people do not try and make their first marriage successful rather than going for a second option. I have already read about how film stars get divorced mutually rather than fighting the years-long legal battle in the court and move ahead with the second marriage. I know you all must have ideas of how these people marry for second time and some even three times before they find their real soulmate and settle down in their life.
I am a person with a positive mental frame but there are times i do look for motivation and feel lonely. And these are the times when i face a situation head on and emerge successfully from every adversity. The only lack is lack of mental preparation, once i am mentally prepared no matter what the situation may be i can handle anything. I am someone who travels with lots of luggage so like it is much heavier than a normal person would carry. I had to travel from Kharagpur to Tatanagar (Jamshedpur) and i had to do it alone.
First thing learnt about life is that life is about living and not complaining. The more you complain you will find more things to complain about and the bag of complaint will be piled up. When you are grateful for everything that happen in your daily life you will find peace everywhere. You will be happy within. This happiness which flows from inside to the outside is very important. We do not want to change the world but change our attitude to things around us. Problems, frustrations, stress leads to unhappy minds and diseases which ruins our life.
The meaning of gratitude is being thankful and grateful for everything we have in our life. Most of our life is spend on complaining and worry but sooner or later we realize that the true essence of life and living is to stop complaining and start living but we understand this very later in life.
Self analysis is analyzing what is best within us. What we can do best ? Our intrinsic qualities. It is discovering our own personal self and emotions. It is analyzing our values and what is important to us. Getting closer to our inner mind and soul.
Self analysis helps in knowing about our strengths, weaknesses, goals, aspirations, abilities, values and interest.
There are few questions flashing in my mind before i begin writing. What is Self image ? And how its shapes our future ? Self image is the the way we perceive ourselves. The work or activities we do is the reflection of our self. The words which we speak, the way we walk, talk, eat, treat others or live our life everything defines us. Its your real image which you cannot conceal from the whole world, its something which is visible. We might act as an impostor at times but our real image is displayed and it cannot be hidden.
