decision

When your life seems 100% out of order and you can’t make any sense as to what is happening? Chill, things will happen. You just need to keep working. You all know for me the very concept of work has changed. If you all talk to me about career growth. I don’t think I did much work in that area but yes if you talk to me about personal growth I think I have achieved a lot. How do you define success? Yes, it is true I want to create a great life for myself be it in my career or my personal life. I don’t think my age is going to be a barrier to whatever I want to create in the world.

A person who writes his own success story is not someone from an alien land but he is also made of the same stuff which everyone else is made up of but there is a difference in mentality and thinking. Do you think that a lean and thin person is weak while a fat person is brave? I would say “No” because your stature never determines your courage. It is your own mentality and inner toughness which decides the journey of your life. It is your strengths which determines how much risks you will take in life and which paths you will avoid.

All of you know that we have the option to refresh a page when it does not load correctly or hangs midway. We immediately refresh the page so that we can view the desired page so is life there are times when you will have to press the refresh button of life so that you can start again because when you are stuck you have the only option to move ahead because you cannot go and mend the past so it is better to accept the present and move on with life.

In life we always have to choose between two or more options and once the decision is made we move on with the best option which we feel is correct for us. The situations can be either good or bad but you always have to choose which way to go. Even in the worst of situations, you have to decide what to do because even if you procrastinate your decision for some time you will have to choose what to do. The worst will turn good only when you have the ability to make good decisions even when the water is turbulent.

I think all of you have gone through such a situation in life when you go mad and your brain stops working. You do not know what to do and cannot decide what next. Your whole thinking process gets clogged and everything around you seems foggy. You are done with everything and just want to leave things as it is because you are in no mood to deal with it. All the problems which you are facing seem insurmountable and you go crazy over small issues. This is the most pathetic situation in which any human being can be but I don’t think anyone chooses to be in such a situation.

Life is a wonderful experience gifted by God to us. The day till you breathe your last breath you have to decide which way to go? This way or that way. It is never easy to make a decision because the path you choose or the decision you make may be difficult but then a decision is a decision and you cannot revert it. When there is life there are bound to be problems but it is all upon you how you handle the challenges thrown by life and how much you are ready to adjust to them. Sometimes life is easy and other times it is tough.

A person is nothing but a sum total of all decisions he makes in his life. You always have to choose and decide which way to go. Decision making starts from kindergarten days when a child decides whether he should eat a chocolate or not, purchase one toy over the other toy. We human beings are adapted to decision making but the best part is that when we make small decisions it does not matters whether it is right or wrong. It is only when we make big decisions that we understand “How Right or How Wrong We Were”. So what to do.