I personally believe that your life is your own responsibility and you cannot play the blame game saying the other person is causing me unhappiness or is responsible for my failures. Let's dig deep inside and look at everything from a different angle, a different perspective. Now answer a few questions before you shift the blame on someone else, Can someone live your life for you? Can someone else eat for you, sleep for you or live your miseries or die for you? The list is endless, I would say “NO”.
tough soul
A person who writes his own success story is not someone from an alien land but he is also made of the same stuff which everyone else is made up of but there is a difference in mentality and thinking. Do you think that a lean and thin person is weak while a fat person is brave? I would say “No” because your stature never determines your courage. It is your own mentality and inner toughness which decides the journey of your life. It is your strengths which determines how much risks you will take in life and which paths you will avoid.
© 2010 Rashmi Priya. m