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We all plan our life. Planning occupies a center stage in our life. Though we may do a lot of planning but when the actual time of execution comes we get lazy or cut short our goals or make some modifications or discipline ourselves to reach our destination on time and be successful in life. You plan “A” and some crisis situation happens which may force you to change your plan to “B”. Everything which you have planned may not work. One or the other thing is bound to go out of work at the last moment and you have to make adjustments to handle that trouble.

When it comes to testing your power than I would say it is best tested in the bad days when we suffer and really want someone to pull us out of that situation. When we do not get the help we handle it ourselves. When you sit down and start remembering, all the past events will just flash in your mind and show you how powerful you were in those tough situations and how strongly you handled everything on your own. You never know your own strengths and powers until and unless you face adversity. It is in those trying times that you fully concentrate on the problem and want a solution.

There are different facets of life, it is both sweet and sour at times. Sometimes life challenges us beyond our limitations and at other times gifts us enormously. Let's welcome life. It will show you its good and ugly face at different times and it is all upon you how you accept it and react to it. Our whole life revolves around people and our own perceptions of people. We love some, hate some and do not bother at all about the rest because they do not carry any meaning in our life but that does not mean that these people do not carry any significance in our life.

We all know that this universe is vast and has no end but are you all aware that there is a big universe which exists inside us. It is not easy to get access to the inner universe until and unless you learn how to control your mind and reach a state where you are in full control of your own self. People who have harnessed their inner world are genius in their field because they have developed good intelligence, have a strong sixth sense, are intuitive and happy. The outer world which you see with your naked eyes is an extension of your inner world.

The blame game is a common problem in today’s world when the other person blames you for their problems and grief. It is easy to point the finger on someone else that so and so person is responsible for my problem while the reason for your success or failure could just be you yourself. How can someone else make you a failure or success if you are determined to move ahead in life. When you want to advance in life you will make a proper plan and work accordingly, you will check if others are working properly and if you find some loopholes you can communicate and fix them.

Love is the most powerful force in the universe when everything else fails it is love which will help you overcome the toughest situations. Anger, hatred, and jealousy are emotions which just kills you and no one else because the more you cultivate these negative emotions the more poisonous it gets and over a period of time eats away your happiness. When you have the ability to love even when it is very difficult to shower your love is something which can be expected from a matured soul.

I think all of you have gone through such a situation in life when you go mad and your brain stops working. You do not know what to do and cannot decide what next. Your whole thinking process gets clogged and everything around you seems foggy. You are done with everything and just want to leave things as it is because you are in no mood to deal with it. All the problems which you are facing seem insurmountable and you go crazy over small issues. This is the most pathetic situation in which any human being can be but I don’t think anyone chooses to be in such a situation.

It is good to think about life and plan what to do next, the biggest problem arises when we start overthinking and want to plan our whole life in just 15 minutes. Is it really possible? The answer is “No”. How can you plan your whole life in a few minutes or a few days? It is practically impossible. You do not know what is going to happen next in your life, you cannot predict anything in life because life is not constant. Your life is changing every moment and even the people and circumstances are changing.

We all pray to God but it is only in the tough times that our true faith and connection with God is tested. You pray to God and ask for money, good relationships, good health of family members, good marks, etc. When something goes wrong in your life and you cannot see a way out of that situation is when your belief in God gets tested. You can either complain to God for landing you into a troublesome situation even after praying every day with full devotion or think that it is your own bad Karmas which landed you in this tough situation and now you need to figure out a way to get out of it.

Life is a wonderful experience gifted by God to us. The day till you breathe your last breath you have to decide which way to go? This way or that way. It is never easy to make a decision because the path you choose or the decision you make may be difficult but then a decision is a decision and you cannot revert it. When there is life there are bound to be problems but it is all upon you how you handle the challenges thrown by life and how much you are ready to adjust to them. Sometimes life is easy and other times it is tough.