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I firmly believe that all the people who are in my life are meant to be in life be it my friends, family, neighbors or people who are away from me and connected through Facebook and WhatsApp. All of them are meant to be in my life for one or the other reason and that’s why they are in my life. Few people entered knowingly and others unknowingly, I love the presence of all of them. Some are of my age while some are younger to me while there are many with whom my thoughts connect but they are much older to me.

I hope all of you will agree with me that when you have empty space then only you can try filling it. You can never fill something which is preoccupied from before so when you delete unnecessary stuff from your life you create room for good things to enter your life. You have got old furniture which you want to replace with a new one. You are thinking first let me sell the old one and then I can buy the new one.

When you choose to be happy rather than being unhappy you have made a conscious decision from your heart. You decide to be happy about everything in life no matter whatever the circumstances. It is the choices that you make in your lifetime which decides the course of your life. When you choose the right things for yourself you already have made a conscious decision to be happy with your life. You cannot control what happens to you but yes you can control how you react to it and how boldly you accept the challenges that life throws at you.

In Today’s world when everything around us is getting sophisticated and artificial, why do we complicate life further? There is nothing which is wrong in sophistication but the power games which people play just to show off how big they are and how small others are, then it wrong. I would say the more simple things get, it gets easy to use them. You love your old phone which you bought just 1 year ago and now something new is in the market, though you do not need this new phone with new features you go ahead and spend a big chunk of money to own this phone so that you feel trendy.

I know this topic itself sounds crazy and you people must be thinking about what I am going to write. Just chill today I am penning down my own experiences and things which I have seen so read on to find more what I have to write about today’s topic. Well, you will see that whenever you overanalyze a problem it never really solves it but gets more problematic or it never needed the attention which you gave and sorted out on its own without your interference.

It is raining in Nagpur and the weather is simply great so for the first rains in the monsoon season I thought of writing about love. I want to put forth my ideas about love and want to discuss what it is not and what it is? Love is a feeling which always grows with passing time and never fades away. If it vanishes then it is not love. What most people think about love is just a small part of the big ocean which is yet to be discovered. When you fall in love it is true your mind goes foggy and you cannot think about anything other than the person whom you love madly.

All of you know that we have the option to refresh a page when it does not load correctly or hangs midway. We immediately refresh the page so that we can view the desired page so is life there are times when you will have to press the refresh button of life so that you can start again because when you are stuck you have the only option to move ahead because you cannot go and mend the past so it is better to accept the present and move on with life.

I hope all of you will agree with me that you should always face your fears or they will haunt you in the night. The biggest problem with most of us is that we run away from things which we cannot face or don’t want to face because we fear we may not get desired result or a complete rejection which will break our heart. I would say face your deadliest fears so that it never troubles you again in your life, at least you know the reality and you are not in the fantasy world which you created.

This topic is something which struck my head today so I wanted to write about it. I am writing my own experiences here. After going through so much in my life after my marriage of 12 years has molded me and has even taught me a few harsh lessons which I was never aware of when I was single living my life blissfully with my parents. My realizations and my thinking have changed as I am maturing as a person and I have realized that the first person who is important in my life is me “Myself” because if I am not happy from inside how can others around me be happy?

Today I wanted to write about myself and my association with the divine energy who was and is always with me guiding me and helping me in all possible ways. I have got a big association with God from the time I understood that there is something which is much beyond this realm and that is God. You pray to him, love him and get associated with him, he will give you peace and love in return. All prayers are not answered by God, neither are all wishes fulfilled but there is a reason behind everything.