I would say that it is a known fact as we grow older and move ahead in our lives we get better than we were yesterday. I mean you are now a better version of yourself. A different person, a different human being who can handle life’s challenges in a more reasonable way.
Life is a reality which comes into existence from the time you are born till you die. Your Atma is the ultimate source of your life. Once atma leaves your body you are dead and your journey ends on this earth. The time between birth and death is the time which you are given by the universe to complete the tasks for which you are born and also discover yourself along the process. You are gifted with people in the form of various relationships who enter your life at exact times when they are meant to be in your life.
Life is a beautiful game and you will live a happy life when you know how to play the game of life. You come here on this earth to fulfill a purpose and when your time gets over you leave. When you are on your journey of life you go through various life’s learning so that you sharpen your skills and do what you are meant to do. You will be trained, you have to learn and sometimes the universe will knock you down to the bottom so that you develop the exact skills which you need to do that particular work for which only you have been chosen.
A burning candle spreads light and carries a different meaning in different occasions. Can you ever think of completing your morning or evening deity worship without lighting your diya. I would say “No”. when you light a lamp or diya you feel good and it removes all negative energies of the house. A diya lighted in front of God’s brings positive energy in the house and when you see that burning diya it brings a smile on your face. When you do arti with a lighted diya you actually bring home the goodness of heavens to your home.
You have a connection with your inner self and your own spirit or Jeev Atma which exists inside of you. The problem is that you connect with the whole world and you are left with very less time to connect with your own self or I would say our thinking gets clouded and we keep thinking that whatever exists is just outside of me and there is nothing beyond that. It is only when you walk the path of self-discovery that you find out that there is so much which exists inside of you and you need time to connect with your inner self and understand it to live a purposeful life.
There are always two ways of looking at the same thing and there are two realities - one which exists in the mind and the other which actually happens on the outside. When something has started it will end and some new thing will start, this is part and parcel of life. When your childhood ends you begin your journey as an adult and when your adulthood ends you start your old age journey. There is always an ending and new beginnings in the path of life.
In life we always have to choose between two or more options and once the decision is made we move on with the best option which we feel is correct for us. The situations can be either good or bad but you always have to choose which way to go. Even in the worst of situations, you have to decide what to do because even if you procrastinate your decision for some time you will have to choose what to do. The worst will turn good only when you have the ability to make good decisions even when the water is turbulent.
When you are fed up and frustrated, you cannot see any solutions around the corner, you just want to give up and feel it's over, your constant failures have disheartened you, you see no point in doing anything, your life seems meaningless then just try one more time. This is life and when there is life there are bound to be challenges. You always have two options before you, either you fight with the problem or you just run away from the problem. When you feel frustrated and want to give up because you have tried enough and you do not see any point in trying again then try one more time.
I conducted a Training Program on “Goal Setting” at JCI Nagpur Royal on 26th May 2019. The participants were from various backgrounds like students, working professionals, and business owners. I Spoke about Why Goals are important in Life? Various Types of Goals, How to keep yourself motivated during struggling times? And various ways to reach the target.
More than half of the time we keep fantasizing about how things have got “Ok” in our lives and we have already started living normal lives or think that everything is going to be ok in our lives. Believe me, this really helps because then we focus on good memories and attract good vibes in our life while when we think of negative things we get more stressed out. It is always better to visualize good things rather than dwell on ugly happenings in life.
