When you don’t know what is next in life or which way to go then you need to calm down. Being in constant agitation will not help you deal with the stress but aggravate your problem. There are some problems that are timeless and they will arise again and again after some time but you have to deal differently with them depending on the situation. Fair or unfair life, it's useless complaining. It's you who has to deal with whatever life presents to you. You can discuss your problems with family and friends but in the end, it's your decision.
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Your life is nothing but a combination of choices that you made. Be happy with your present self because it was you who chose that life. There are many things that will work and many which won’t. It is useless crying over how far you would have gone if you had a picture-perfect life and things went according to your plan. When I look back at my life I conclude that the unplanned part took away my mental peace and good health. The universe always has so much in store for me that I keep wondering what they are up to.
Life is a sweet dream and it becomes worth living when you live it with your Cutie Pie. I have seen a lot more life than I should have at the age of 42. I have to spend a large chunk of my life fighting with health problems and finding solutions without any guarantee of success. I have experimented with many things. My God always played a very big role in my life. He was a person who always stood by my side even when I could not see him. He was a good friend, my partner in crime, and listened to all my stories because I needed a person who never judged me.
What do you want? It is the first question that needs to be answered before figuring out anything in your life. Be it a great career or a long-lasting relationship, you should be very well versed with your thoughts regarding the exact things which you want to manifest in your life. A single-minded focus is very important because if you change what you desire very often then you are not only confusing yourself but also the universe. Always remember there is a timing for everything and till then you just have to keep believing and keep doing even when you can’t see anything physically.
I have worked on the invisible part of myself by trusting my intuition and the “Man who changed my life for a lifetime”. I tried a few things but none of them materialized. Then one day one of my school friends came to meet me. He said Rashmi why don’t you move ahead and do a job. Just start your career so that you get out of your home environment, meet people and figure out what’s next in your life. I thought it to be a good and genuine suggestion because he is one of my school friends and well settled in his life now.
You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough. – Frank Crane, American minister and author