love

Happy Father’s day Papa. There are so many things that this 36 years young daughter wants to share with you and i thought nothing would be best medium to express my love for you other than my own blog where you can read it someday and know the depth of my feelings. Though it is a challenge and very hard for me to put my true feelings in words but i have given it a try. Papa you know I always call you “My Best Dad in the World”. You are the best dad for me “I Love You” and am “Thankful” to you for everything you did for me. From the time i am born you are with me.

Our life is the sum total of all the experiences we gain during our journey from the day we are born till the time of our death. Life's a journey and not a destination. It gets the meaning which we give. The journey is full of ups and downs, some good and some bad moments but what we have to do is gather experience and move on. The path of mortality is full of hurdles sometimes put by people who are close to you but then forgive, forget and move on. The people we meet in our life makes life worth living and they add flavour to our life.

Today when I look back to my past I gather all sweet and sour memories. But I am happy that in my journey of 36 years I have learnt a lot from life. The daily teachings of life have transformed me much more than the college studies. I love reading books, articles, journals and almost everything which catches my attention. My dad instilled in me the feeling that I am a different person from the time I was born. There were so many unnatural things which happened with me and these does not happen with any other person.

I remember a very famous quotation on commitment “The moment you commit and quit holding back, all sorts of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, will rise up to help you. The simple act of commitment is a powerful magnet for help.”

It is important to have good relationships in life. We all try to maintain good relations with everyone who are close to us. I strongly feel that the bond of marriage literally ties two individuals with a single thread, though it is not visible to anyone except the two of them sharing the tie-up. It is a bond which gives you your best friend for life whom you can call your life partner or your better half. You are 50 % and your partner is 50 % and when you both are together you make complete 100 %.

Happiness is the emotion which is felt within and is expressed out by means of good feelings and laughter. Happiness can have different meaning for different people. Something which makes me happy may not make the other person happy. Every person has his or her own definition of happiness. A smiling face can make someone happy, a small gift, a good night's sleep or one can find happiness in just working selflessly for others. Being happy is a great feeling and everyone should be happy. There is no doubt that God gave us this life just to be happy.

Every child is special and the bond between mother and child is very special. The bond gets established when the child is in the womb for 9 months and descends in this world through her. God has established a very strong bond and it is our responsibility to maintain it.

There are various types of children -
1) Talkative Child
2) Silent Child
3) Expressive Child

Children express their emotions and they are very particular in their expression, it is we who has to understand them and make the child feel comfortable.

Every time i see my child i ask myself the same question, Have i given enough time to my child ? In the fast moving scenario, with growing responsibilities and so much work load we find it difficult to share quality time with our child. There is a difference between staying together in the same house with kids for 8 – 10 hours and spending quality time with them. I can be at home doing office work or just watching television. That is not quality time, quality time is just being with the child and concentrating on him/her. Playing, spending time together or watching movies.