love

I am sure many of you would have come across this proverb “Something which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”. You get strong after a failed marriage, a failed long term relationship, an unsuccessful career or failure in sports. I would say failure doesn’t kill you but makes you stronger. If you would not have failed in your life you would not have been stronger nor you would have grown as a person. When you fail at something again and again or even once you realize your mistakes and you become smart enough not to repeat them again.

There are various people in our life whom we meet for the first time and after that, we never meet again and in those moments they leave a long lasting impression on us. Our life is a sum total of feelings and experiences. You feel for someone in a good or bad way and you experience moments which either brings a smile on your face or saddens you. What you do with the best moment which comes in your life is absolutely your choice, you can either make it the best moment of your life or let your problems steal your joy.

This term “life” is a complicated thing and when you sit down to simplify it you have to understand many things. I never believed in past lives or rebirths previously till one day my life shattered in a single day and I could not figure out why so I sat down and took my mobile and started searching for my answers. I also got my answers and then I understood whatever was happening today was because of something which I did in my past life and I had to clear that karmic account so that I can live peacefully in my future lives.

Love is the most powerful force in the universe when everything else fails it is love which will help you overcome the toughest situations. Anger, hatred, and jealousy are emotions which just kills you and no one else because the more you cultivate these negative emotions the more poisonous it gets and over a period of time eats away your happiness. When you have the ability to love even when it is very difficult to shower your love is something which can be expected from a matured soul.

Life is both sweet and sour. All of us are hurt and go through pain in our lifetime. It is how you deal with it that matters. Crying, complaining and repeating the incidents in your mind again and again will not help you. What will be helpful is your understanding of the problem and how to get over it. You can control your own self but you cannot control another person’s behavior and the outside situations and circumstances. The other person may behave wrongly with you though you may not have committed a very big mistake and hurt you.

Life makes sense only when there is peace and when you lose it there is something which is out of order and needs to be fixed. You all clean your homes and offices but what about your own life. You need to clear your life of all the unnecessary stuff so that you have room for all the good things in life.

I have faith in destiny and God’s timing to make something happen or to bring something in our life. Something which is meant for me will be in my life no matter what and things which are not meant to be in my life will simply leave. I have seen things happening in my own life. I cannot change circumstances or situations, what I can do best is to adapt to them. Things will happen because they have to happen, God’s timing is perfect. You will be available at a place at a correct timing and will meet someone you never thought of?

This a topic which came to my mind very randomly. I face problem in my daily life where I actually get fed up explaining people Who I am? Why am I doing something? And just leave me and let me experiment with what I believe in. I can very well understand it is not just my problem or your problem but everyone else’s problem. We sometimes get fed up explaining our point of view to those around us and they keep on giving the same advice. This happens when you want to do something which no one has done in the family or no one in the friend circle has heard of it before.

There is a very best saying which says “When the going gets Tough the Toughest gets going”. There are various reasons as to why the toughest get going because they are the ones who know that they cannot retreat and they have to keep going in spite of the rough circumstances. Whenever I am encountered with any tough situation in my life I always think that I have to handle it and I can handle it. It is me who has to sort it out and no one else is going to do it for me. I am not someone who will put my burden on someone else’s shoulder and relax.

This is my third life. Chill readers don’t think too much. First life - when I was born, 2nd when I had my baby and 3rd when I overcame all my troubling health problems with a will to say a big “HI” to my life once again. Life can pull you down and even your health can get on your nerves to the extent that you may want to end everything and leave for the heavenly abode but there are few fighters which are created by God who are not ready to give in. Those are the ones who conquers not only their health problems but also every problem.