My Thoughts

This very idea of second marriage would always strike my mind as to why someone really decides to go ahead with a second option or second marriage. Why people do not try and make their first marriage successful rather than going for a second option. I have already read about how film stars get divorced mutually rather than fighting the years-long legal battle in the court and move ahead with the second marriage. I know you all must have ideas of how these people marry for second time and some even three times before they find their real soulmate and settle down in their life.

This is a unique incident which happened with me. Though I do not pay heed to many things in my life but this is something which is difficult for me to ignore. I do not write about stuff which does not touch me but this incident is quite amazing and I literally do not know how to react to it. This incident happened with me on 29th August 2017. I had gone to do Ganpati Darshan in pantheon layout at around 8 PM at night when a white car just stopped near me. A person came out of it with a big bouquet of Red Roses and a big chocolate box. He proposed me and handed the flower bouquet to me.

In Geeta Saar, it is written: “Whatever happens happens for good”. Now I am going to discuss my own life’s experience as to how good or how bad. I can say one thing with surety that whenever a big change is about to happen there is no intimation as to it is going to happen. We have to accept it whether we are mentally prepared or not. Sometimes you will cry and get disheartened but have faith that whatever is happening is happening for good and the present situation is preparing us for the future. The past experiences are also something which has to be kept in mind.

The work which you do is an expression of your personality. Every person is not capable of doing all the work. There are a selective few who can lead and others fall in follower category. The leaders take the leadership position and lead and they need people to work for them. Every person cannot lead so it is absolutely ok if you cannot. The work which you do, networks you build with the people with whom your personality matches makes a big difference in your life. People know you by your work and they associate with you seeing your work.

Since time immemorial we know that like attracts like. Our mind which governs our thoughts is a huge energy magnet which attracts whatever is going on in our mind. Stronger feelings generate a high frequency which is sent into the universe and it fulfills our desires one by one. Our brain thinks and our heart feels. The whole universe works on the Law of Attraction. Whatever is going on in our mind we are attracting that into our life. Our thoughts and feelings give more of what is going inside us. We have heard that when we have scarcity we should concentrate on abundance and not on lack.

There are very few people on this earth who really move you to a great extent just by their mere presence. I met Ashok Munne one of such great personality in JCI Nagpur Green City Installation Ceremony on 10th January 2016. Ashok lost his right leg in a train accident where his leg was trapped under the wheels of the train. He had two unsuccessful operations below the knee in the government hospital. Ashok lost lots of weight and suffered from severe asthma which made walking from one place to another a tedious task.

Friends you all know me as Rashmi Priya. I am thankful to all of you who read my blogs and have liked it. You all the ones who motivate me to write more and share more. All the experiences which I share on my blog or write about are my real life experiences. I do not write superficial stuff. I am an easy going lady who loves her life and her work. It took me ten years to realize as to what I want to do in my life and to figure out what my true purpose in life was.

I am a very Spiritual person someone who believes in God. The faith in God has only strengthened with time and age. Previously i didn’t understand things but now i have matured as person to understand as to why some things are happening and others are still piling up in a queue. A lot of incidences have happened in my life one after another which has proved that God is there with me all the time and helping me in all possible ways. The almighty has send various people in my life who make my day just by being there for me. I firmly believe everything happens in life for a reason.

A person is nothing but a sum total of all decisions he makes in his life. You always have to choose and decide which way to go. Decision making starts from kindergarten days when a child decides whether he should eat a chocolate or not, purchase one toy over the other toy. We human beings are adapted to decision making but the best part is that when we make small decisions it does not matters whether it is right or wrong. It is only when we make big decisions that we understand “How Right or How Wrong We Were”. So what to do.

It is important to have good relationships in life. We all try to maintain good relations with everyone who are close to us. I strongly feel that the bond of marriage literally ties two individuals with a single thread, though it is not visible to anyone except the two of them sharing the tie-up. It is a bond which gives you your best friend for life whom you can call your life partner or your better half. You are 50 % and your partner is 50 % and when you both are together you make complete 100 %.