marriage

All of us have one or more secrets hidden in our heart, sometimes during the course of living if you find someone trustworthy of owning your secret you disclose it to him or else the secret remains hidden in your heart for a lifetime. When I talk about a secret, it is a very mysterious word and all kinds of stuff pop out in head as to what is the secret the other person is holding in his heart. You even try to get sneaky at times just to find out the unknown by listening to the person when he is talking to the other person by means of a parallel landline connection.

How do you define destiny? Some say it is the will of God handed over to you in the form of Janam Patri when you are born or your destiny is determined by the karmas which you did in your previous lifetimes. Good karmas lead to good fortune while bad karmas cause miseries in the coming life. I would say each one of you want to live a good, happy and meaningful life where you do what you are meant to do. You make your contribution to the world by playing your own role and living by your purpose for which you are born.

More than half of the time we keep fantasizing about how things have got “Ok” in our lives and we have already started living normal lives or think that everything is going to be ok in our lives. Believe me, this really helps because then we focus on good memories and attract good vibes in our life while when we think of negative things we get more stressed out. It is always better to visualize good things rather than dwell on ugly happenings in life.

It is important to have good relationships in life. We all try to maintain good relations with everyone who are close to us. I strongly feel that the bond of marriage literally ties two individuals with a single thread, though it is not visible to anyone except the two of them sharing the tie-up. It is a bond which gives you your best friend for life whom you can call your life partner or your better half. You are 50 % and your partner is 50 % and when you both are together you make complete 100 %.

Self analysis is analyzing what is best within us. What we can do best ? Our intrinsic qualities. It is discovering our own personal self and emotions. It is analyzing our values and what is important to us. Getting closer to our inner mind and soul.

Self analysis helps in knowing about our strengths, weaknesses, goals, aspirations, abilities, values and interest.

Few quotes which should be remembered every moment you face a problem -

1) Keep your head and your heart in the right direction and you shall never have to worry about your feet.

2) When an egg is broken from outside, life ends
but if it breaks from inside, life begins,
so all forces are within you.

3) If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.

4) A successful marriage requires falling in love many times , always with the same person.