God

Tough times are testing times and it can test you till your core. It tests your patience and your total being. Your mind stops working, you don’t know what to do and you keep worrying. You just want to get out of that situation. You want a helping hand which can pull you through those tough times. You lose your night’s sleep, overthink, overwork and still, the tough situation does not seem to end. You can face a tough situation in personal life, in work or any relationship which adds meaning to your life. The more you replay those hard moments in your mind the more you get demotivated.

God gave us this wonderful life and when there is life there is bound to be problems. Then what to do forget about the problem? Leave it for tomorrow? Or find out a solution then and there so that we can move ahead in life. There are few problems which cannot be sorted in the present and what you can do is give it some time. Think over it again and again only to come back to it with a better solution. You cannot solve each and every problem immediately. Some problems take longer time than usual.

I think almost all of us struggle at some or other point in life and wanted more options in life but we get less or no options. The situation just chokes you and stirs you till your core and you want to get out of everything but you feel stuck because you don’t have a choice. You just have to face that situation as it is because there is no option of getting out of it. You feel helpless, feel like crying, frustrated, complain, get angry at people who brought you to this situation, want to just shout and yell at all the nonsense but you don’t get those options.

All of us are thankful to God that he gave us these wonderful feet with which we can walk. You can walk and go to places. You can start your bright day by standing on these feet and feel grateful that you have the power to walk and control your destiny. When you go for an interview you just walk inside the interviewer's chamber and take your seat. When you need to walk away from a situation you just take your feet backward and leave the chaos. You enter the temple with these feet.

Let Go of the past if it hurts and look beyond the present into a new and brighter future which you cannot see now. If you are too stuck up in the past you spoil not only your present but also your future. Past is past and you have to leave it and move on even if gives you goosebumps and makes your life difficult. I know past memories never leave our mind. When we are active in the day to day activities everything is ok and fine it is only when we are free that all the past memories gather and creates havoc in our life.

I have realized what boredom is? and how difficult it can get at times when you really don’t feel like doing anything. You don’t know what to do with those 24 hours and passing a single hour seems like ages. I am sure a lot of us have felt this way and with a fast-paced life when everyone around you is busy you feel left out. You can get bored with a routine life, day to day activities or due to loneliness because you have no one to talk to.

At the age of 39 years, I have experienced the goods and bads in life. Life never gave me many options. It was never easy on me or favored me a lot. It was sometimes gentle and sometimes very tough. People say we live a predestined life. A life which is written in our Kundali when we are born and our past karma defines our destiny in this lifetime too. I would say only God knows the truth. People say we can change some events in our life by our good deeds and by praying to God. I don’t know how true it is because I could not alter my destiny by prayers.

I have faith in destiny and God’s timing to make something happen or to bring something in our life. Something which is meant for me will be in my life no matter what and things which are not meant to be in my life will simply leave. I have seen things happening in my own life. I cannot change circumstances or situations, what I can do best is to adapt to them. Things will happen because they have to happen, God’s timing is perfect. You will be available at a place at a correct timing and will meet someone you never thought of?

Life comes with all its twists and turns. You simply cannot stop things from happening in your life but yes you can work on your life and change your attitude towards it so that you can better deal with it. These ups and downs in life sometimes become so severe and carry for so long that you get depressed. Planetary changes, day to day stress, change of behavior of loved ones and heated words causes depression. You cannot run away from it nor can you avoid it since you are a human being. As a human being, you have to feel all the emotions be it happiness, sorrows or pains.

God gave us this wonderful life to live and make our destiny. I would say there is no binding as to why we cannot live a life of our dreams. I know there are people who have “N” number of excuses as to why they could not do what they had planned to do. The real reasons being family problems, lack of time, no money etc. I know it gets tough at times to cope with your dreams as well as family. But there are people who have achieved their dreams after they got free from family and pursued their dreams. We have this one life and we should not just spend it.