Motivation & Inspiration

All of us are destined to be here on this earth to walk on a journey which was always meant for us. The only question which I want to ask you is are you the same person today when you compare yourself to your own existence 5 to 10 years ago. I would say “No”, you are a different person today then you were yesterday. Your life’s experiences, your journey, your success, your failures, the people in your life and your daily struggles have molded you into a new person.

How do you define destiny? Some say it is the will of God handed over to you in the form of Janam Patri when you are born or your destiny is determined by the karmas which you did in your previous lifetimes. Good karmas lead to good fortune while bad karmas cause miseries in the coming life. I would say each one of you want to live a good, happy and meaningful life where you do what you are meant to do. You make your contribution to the world by playing your own role and living by your purpose for which you are born.

This life is the best gift of God to all human beings. Life is very tricky and sometimes it may become nuts and very difficult for you to handle but then you don’t have an option before you to say goodbye either to your circumstances or your own life. You cannot control the outside circumstances or things which happen in your outer world but you can adjust your life’s sails accordingly so that you can move through the rough patch easily.

I truly believe that this life is the gift of God to us. Every person who exists on this earth is born to achieve his purpose in life. This very life which is gifted by God to you is very purpose driven. There is not a single person who exists on this earth who is not meant to be here on this planet without a specific purpose.

It is my own experience that when you set your eyes on a goal, the journey to achieve that goal is much more enjoyable than the destination. The reason is the ups and downs which you encounter on your path makes you a better person and you learn various life’s lessons which were not possible if you had not taken the journey which you were meant to take. You set a goal then you plan your life accordingly, you make certain amendments to your daily routine work and do things which require your time and energy, you delegate the rest of the work to other people who can handle it for you.

I have heard people saying that this is not in my destiny that is why I won’t get it. I want to ask you did you try just one time before giving up when you were on the verge of failure when you could not hold on to your problems anymore, when you seemed lost and stopped trying because the pain of trying one more time gave you goosebumps. I know how difficult it is to try just one more time when you are done with your problems or your life’s challenges but when you still try just for the last time before laying down your armor you will see that miracles happen.

I think this is a question which must be there in everybody’s mind that what do I want to do in my life? Or What I want from my life? This life is the gift of God to you. You only live once and die once, in between you have got a life to live where you experience the joys and pains of living a life. It sometimes seems that we are living our lives in a straight line, it is only when you go through all the twists and turns that you understand that life is much more than you understand or can perceive beyond your imagination.

I firmly believe that all the people who are in my life are meant to be in life be it my friends, family, neighbors or people who are away from me and connected through Facebook and WhatsApp. All of them are meant to be in my life for one or the other reason and that’s why they are in my life. Few people entered knowingly and others unknowingly, I love the presence of all of them. Some are of my age while some are younger to me while there are many with whom my thoughts connect but they are much older to me.

I hope all of you will agree with me that when you have empty space then only you can try filling it. You can never fill something which is preoccupied from before so when you delete unnecessary stuff from your life you create room for good things to enter your life. You have got old furniture which you want to replace with a new one. You are thinking first let me sell the old one and then I can buy the new one.

When you choose to be happy rather than being unhappy you have made a conscious decision from your heart. You decide to be happy about everything in life no matter whatever the circumstances. It is the choices that you make in your lifetime which decides the course of your life. When you choose the right things for yourself you already have made a conscious decision to be happy with your life. You cannot control what happens to you but yes you can control how you react to it and how boldly you accept the challenges that life throws at you.