Motivation & Inspiration

I am writing this article based on my own experience with hormonal imbalance. I delivered my baby in the year 2008 and since then my life was never normal. She was delivered through a Cesarean delivery. After a few months, I started facing problems of heavy bleeding. I consulted my Gynecologist and she said that I was having problems of hormonal imbalance. I had mood swings too which really took away my peace of mind. She treated me on birth control pills which never sorted out my problem. She gave me medicines to curb my periods but that too didn’t help much.

I have realized what boredom is? and how difficult it can get at times when you really don’t feel like doing anything. You don’t know what to do with those 24 hours and passing a single hour seems like ages. I am sure a lot of us have felt this way and with a fast-paced life when everyone around you is busy you feel left out. You can get bored with a routine life, day to day activities or due to loneliness because you have no one to talk to.

At the age of 39 years, I have experienced the goods and bads in life. Life never gave me many options. It was never easy on me or favored me a lot. It was sometimes gentle and sometimes very tough. People say we live a predestined life. A life which is written in our Kundali when we are born and our past karma defines our destiny in this lifetime too. I would say only God knows the truth. People say we can change some events in our life by our good deeds and by praying to God. I don’t know how true it is because I could not alter my destiny by prayers.

God gave us this wonderful life to live and make our destiny. I would say there is no binding as to why we cannot live a life of our dreams. I know there are people who have “N” number of excuses as to why they could not do what they had planned to do. The real reasons being family problems, lack of time, no money etc. I know it gets tough at times to cope with your dreams as well as family. But there are people who have achieved their dreams after they got free from family and pursued their dreams. We have this one life and we should not just spend it.

This a topic which came to my mind very randomly. I face problem in my daily life where I actually get fed up explaining people Who I am? Why am I doing something? And just leave me and let me experiment with what I believe in. I can very well understand it is not just my problem or your problem but everyone else’s problem. We sometimes get fed up explaining our point of view to those around us and they keep on giving the same advice. This happens when you want to do something which no one has done in the family or no one in the friend circle has heard of it before.

There is a very best saying which says “When the going gets Tough the Toughest gets going”. There are various reasons as to why the toughest get going because they are the ones who know that they cannot retreat and they have to keep going in spite of the rough circumstances. Whenever I am encountered with any tough situation in my life I always think that I have to handle it and I can handle it. It is me who has to sort it out and no one else is going to do it for me. I am not someone who will put my burden on someone else’s shoulder and relax.

This is my third life. Chill readers don’t think too much. First life - when I was born, 2nd when I had my baby and 3rd when I overcame all my troubling health problems with a will to say a big “HI” to my life once again. Life can pull you down and even your health can get on your nerves to the extent that you may want to end everything and leave for the heavenly abode but there are few fighters which are created by God who are not ready to give in. Those are the ones who conquers not only their health problems but also every problem.

Happy Father’s day Papa. There are so many things that this 36 years young daughter wants to share with you and i thought nothing would be best medium to express my love for you other than my own blog where you can read it someday and know the depth of my feelings. Though it is a challenge and very hard for me to put my true feelings in words but i have given it a try. Papa you know I always call you “My Best Dad in the World”. You are the best dad for me “I Love You” and am “Thankful” to you for everything you did for me. From the time i am born you are with me.

Did you ever ask yourself as to who is your limitation? Who tells you what you are capable or incapable of doing? Who guides you all the way so that you can be successful and keep going? My friends, it’s your mind which processes all the definite information and sets limitations not just for ourselves but for others too. I remember a very famous quotation here which says “Only those who risk going too far can probably find out how far one can go”. How far can you go? How far are you capable of going? How long is your journey? All the questions need to be answered by you.

Every person wants to be successful but then success has its own guidelines and principles. You have to think and act. Just thinking will not do and acting without thinking will never make things possible. Others guidelines for success may or may not fit you. So what to do? Read other people’s success stories but think and act differently. Your path and goals are different so your journey will also be different. The time gap and market changes will all play a big role so you cannot copy. Use your brain and always think before acting.